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Friday, May 21, 2010

Women’s Role As Wife In Household



God creates men and women complete with its software and hardware. Every men and women also have rights and obligations of each. As a human being, especially women want to truly noble and worthy; she must refine his role as a woman. And the role of a woman will be truly in charged when she become a wife and mother. When running her tasks, a wife should have “a strong charm in the soul”. Thus, even though she is getting older, her charm in her soul, still give the peace and happiness for the whole of family.


Making home as a paradise for families
A wife should be able to make home like paradise, despite only living in a small house. Make a pleasure situation for your husband and children. Come to your husband with a cheerful and full face of charm, interesting appearance with interesting dress and make him feel comfortable.


Becomes a good listener
When your husband having difficulties and being stalemate, as a wife, you should still respect and provide motivation to continue fighting. Not even berate to your husband, grumble or complain every day without solution. All this can only be done by a wife who has a strong faith and a sincere heart.


Ready for being pregnant and birth of child
Be destined for women to birth a child on the earth. Therefore, as a woman, a wife must be willing and ready for being pregnant and birth. Not uncommon for a wife who is reluctant to do this because afraid if her body will be damage.


Educate children
A mother has an obligation to educate their children. For the career woman and as a mother who worked outside, realize that you have a debt to your children at home. Do not let, the children have a mother, but have not felt a mother. Do not ever expect rewards in raising and educating your children. In the future, good leaders will be born, if they are born from a good family, so that the mother has a play important role in shaping and educating great personality.


Beauty is grace that can not be estimated. But if not careful, beauty will become a source of issues that will complicate the owner himself

Thursday, May 20, 2010

Weight Loss after the Pregnancy



Rebecca Romijn (36) claim to have lower body weight was 27.2 kg since the birth her twin daughter, Dolly and Charlie, four months ago. This is done without the exercise. According to the stars of Ugly Betty, her weight loss secret is out. “It’s like we have to eat 5000 calories a day. If not, we can not provide enough food for them (children). Thus, the process is also fun,” the wife of Jerry O’Connell say this.

Rebecca felt even in the first three weeks she has lost 16 kg without doing anything. “I can not too many sports because my twin children. It is not possible to return to the training schedule as before,” she added. However, she realized that she can not hope to return to the form of the body first. “There is still excess weight that must be removed.”



Rebecca how this can be effective for all new mothers who give birth? We know not all women are given the ability to trim back quickly after the birth. Basically, the weight will go down after birth, but not all. During pregnancy, body weight generally increased between 11 and 16 kg. After birth, the amount of body weight down around 5-7 kg. So, there is still excess weight is behind.



Breastfeeding is to be a good way to accelerate the decrease in body weight. It is evident that provide breastfeeding issue certain hormones in the body for the first 12 months after the birth to help the uterus return to form before the pregnancy. When breastfeeding, everything we eat will be processed into breast milk and the baby will take food from you.



In addition to breastfeeding, there is no other way to reduce body weight except diet and sports. However, we must ensure that this is done both in a manner that is healthy and safe. You can begin exercise 40 days after birth. Of course, select the sports that are not too heavy. These are any tips of weight loss after pregnancy:



1. Lay down in position with your back flat and the second knee buckling. Keep the foot flat on the floor (or bed) and knee meetings.
2. Slowly, move the knee bend to the right thigh right up to touch the outside floor. Make sure the top of the body (stomach and chest) remains straight upwards.
3. Then turn back to the top of the knee and to the left so that the outside of the left thigh touches the floor.
4. Repeat this movement several times. This movement of relax will repair joints and stiff joints that will ease back pain after childbirth.



After your condition is quite strong, you can walk for 30 minutes every day. After the better, do jogging effective as running to burn calories. Treadmill you can use to find out how many calories are burned. Another way is to burn the calories by handle your baby alone and reduce the help of family or servant.



What about diet?



You have often heard that healthy eating patterns, including





1. Stop consumes food and drinks that too sweet. Reduce sugar from which you enjoy a drink, stop drink-drink cans, and avoid cake, brownies, chocolate, and so forth. Consumption more white water.



2. Reduce carbohydrates because carbohydrates can turn into sugar in the body and keep your weight on during pregnancy. If you’d like better (because you are still producing breast milk), find the recipe books that offer food combining eating pattern that is also useful to streamline.



3. Add fiber to food in the menu, such as fruits and vegetables. Do not forget to keep drinking milk, but select the product or even low fat milk and yogurt is fat free.



4. Reduce the portion you eat. How many portions are enough for us? Take meat, fish, or chicken, as many as 85 gr, 28 gr cheese, and 1 tsp butter.



So that hard work is successful, there are three things we need to remember: patience, motivation, and trust that you will come back healthy and slim.

Tired of Being Pregnant



As much as mothers might like to naturally induce labor as soon as they grow tired of being pregnant, labor starts often unpredictably and sometimes later than what mothers would like for their own comfort. Babies will come at 38 weeks and other times will need 42 weeks. Technically you are not overdue or what is called "postdates" until 42 weeks. However, today it is more common to hear from providers that you are "overdue" even if your due date was yesterday!


So in essence, your due date is only a very rough target; which is why it is referred to as an EDD - estimated due date. Your own baby will likely come within a period of four weeks between 38-42 weeks. Only about 3-5% of women actually give birth on their due date not to mention that the majority of women don't go into labor until after their estimated due date!


Rushing the Last Weeks May Cause Long Labors and Cesareans


Studies have shown that if your body is not ready for labor, (i.e. cervix unripe- not dilated or effaced) and you have an induction with pitocin, you will either have a very long labor or a much greater chance of a cesarean. For more information about reasons for an induction and how to labor with an induction, see this article on labor inductions.


Realize that inductions, especially early ones, can be harmful to your baby. If your baby is born even 1-2 weeks pre-term, they can have difficulty breathing on their own. This can happen when your due date has been miscalculated and the baby's lungs have not finished developing. Babies may require a stay in the NICU often for several days or longer if necessary.


Sleep is Not a Given After the Baby Arrives


Another thing to consider is that even though your sleep is likely to be very poor in the last few weeks of your pregnancy, it won't get any better once the baby comes. In fact, most babies will be wakeful and need to eat about every 2 hours thoughout the day and night for the first several weeks. Many babies will be waking up once or twice a night even months after birth.