Friday, May 21, 2010

Overcoming The Family’s Economic Difficulties


Normally, husband is the backbone of families that drives the economy. But sometimes, the husband is not able to do much to meet the needs of families. Not to mention the attitude of the husband who did not want to understand the needs of the household and as such delegate every household affairs to his wife. Family economic hardship is often triggered a conflict a husband-wife. Moreover, if both parties not tried to find a solution of the problem, but blame each other even be a problem making a weight.

Therefore you have to realize many things that can cause economic problems evolved into a family conflict, such as:


Reactive attitudes and emotional
Sometimes without realize, you have be emotional in the economic difficult conditions. Does not accept the fact, you behave exactly emotional as the expression of feelings disappointment, fear and panic.


Trapped in the psychological pressure
Loss of livelihood, exposed to bankruptcy and dismissed from the job necessarily a negative impact on the someone emotional stability. Moreover, people who are not ready mentally to accept an extraordinary occurrence, which can lead to mental shock.


Not able to motivate themselves
It is felt the most bitter that someone who lost their livelihoods is a destruction of pride and trust in yourself. Person be feeling afraid, as fear of failure, fear to refused and make the pessimistic argument.


The description above gives a little description that you really need to help your husband and support in order to come out of the problem. The following steps can help couples presumably out of complexity:


Providing emotional support.
Give attention to your couples to discuss on the problem. Make yourself as a couples to restore the spirit of life and confidence. Rileks him with go to a place that can refresh and calm his head.


Invites couples out of the problem.
Give motivation for making plan in order to get a new work with a new spirit. Which is considered , it is important not to blame and press your couples. If difficult to obtain new jobs, you can encourage couples to create their own employment. Do not be afraid to start, do not let themselves defeated by fear a failure.


Motivate your couples to start.
The key to build a successful business is doing it right now. Do not afraid because of capital. To start a business not always need a big capital. To support the success, you and your couples have to active and expand the association.
Hopefully you are become more wise in solving the problems which found

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